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This is one of those times when I can watch myself burn without a care in the world. No anger, no depression, no overblown sense of betrayal. Just looking through a warped lens and losing my grip on what straight looks like. And not having the energy to figure it out.
Where did I ever come up with a sense of purpose or right? What the hell do I know? Who's counting on me to get them through anything? Help as good as any I can offer is falling from the trees. I need more than damn near anyone. These pathetic words are the most profound thing I've done in weeks.
I'm good at doing what I'm told if the teller has a right to tell. Not so much if they're just being a prick. Living? Different story. Forging ahead, dreaming (gag), bringing inspiration to light and form, all that's so lost to me I have trouble believing I ever had it. I exist. So does a mushroom.
I'm not even feeling much of anything about it at the moment. Fuck feelings. They change and morph and bait and switch and tell me nothing except how far off I am from any mark that ever meant anything good. Process them. Why?
I feel (there's that goddamn word again) very much like leftover matter from a failed experiment. Oh well.
But I do indeed miss knowing that I mattered, even if what I knew was false. If truth wants to destroy me, let's be done with it already. Stationary target right here. Light me up.

lighten up

Life unwinds like a cheap sweater
but since I gave up hope I feel a lot better
and the truth gets blurred like a wet letter
but since I gave up hope I feel a lot better - Steve Taylor

Hope is a lot of weight, and one wonders if it's worth carrying. This tiny world I inhabit cannot possibly be worth all this struggle, yet a larger one would choke me without a sound. I think it should.

I just wanna know--am I pulling people closer?
I just wanna be pulling them to You
I just wanna stay angry at the evil
I just wanna be hungry for the true - Steve Taylor

Hungry - check. Terrified of the hunger's object, but hungry. Angry - check. Impotent and aimless, but angry. So much for the pulling.

The kid never learns. Ever. Everyone else is so much better. Really. Too bad the admiration hurts like it does, otherwise it's be a wonderful distraction from character bankruptcy.

If He loves this thing, then He can have it.

*click*

thy name is desire

There is not enough hate in Hell for you, or for myself for being so vulnerable to you. You are the one constant I know, a perennial backdrop of torment and taunting. Your derisive laughter echoes from my earliest hours to now. Every moment of joy or so-called triumph you unmask as a snare, just another height to get knocked down from. And I am stupid enough to get back up believing it will be different this time, chasing the mirage of hope farther into a void where nothing is real but pain.
You know exactly what I need, you know I'll come back so it doesn't matter what you do to me. Your timing is impeccable. You wait until I show some faint glimmer of courage to take a step toward whatever you're dangling in front of me, then you pull it away and it's still my fault. It's always my fault.
We think we know what love is, what good means, what we were made and meant to do and have and be. Love and good and purpose are whatever the guy with the gun says they are, unless someone stronger disarms him. Who's going to disarm God?
I feel invincible in this citadel of hate, but it won't last. He will either bitch-slap me back into submission or give me another fix so I keep chasing the mirage. Either way I'll come back, but what does that make me? And what hurts is that I know He is good and I'm not.
I doubt very much I can forgive Him for allowing me to exist. People say God doesn't make junk. I say He makes anything He wants, and does whatever He wants with it. I only wish I didn't care. I deserve all His hatred, and yours. I wish I could be and deserve better, but what do my wishes have to do with anything?

change

got to get used to it.
embrace it? dunno how, too sensitive, too incorrigibly wedded to impossible ideals, amazing how I never change when everything else does, you'd think the kid would have learned by now.
it's coming, and it's constant. it will either take me down or it won't. the best decisions are swept out of its path like they were never there unless they were already made by Someone else.
get used to it. or die. really don't care, either will get you out of the way, it said to itself. it knew it was bad, and was terribly afraid God didn't know, or worse, didn't care enough to destroy it.
hate is an amazing drug.

I am very quiet. Let the months and years come, they can take nothing from me, they can take nothing more. I am so alone, and so without hope that I can confront them without fear. The life that has borne me through these years is still in my hands and my eyes. Whether I have subdued it, I know not. But so long as it is there it will seek its own way out, heedless of the will that is within me. - Erich Maria Remarque

landslide

I took my love and I took it down
Climbed a mountain and I turned around
And I saw my reflection in the snow-covered hills
And the landslide brought me down
Oh, mirror in the sky--what is love?
Can the child in my heart rise above?
Can I sail through the changing ocean tides?
Can I handle the seasons of my life?
I don't know.....I don't know...
Well I've been afraid of changing
Because I've built my life around you
But time makes us bolder; children get older
I'm getting older too....
So, take this love...take it down
Oh, if you climb a mountain and you turn around
and you see my reflection in the snow-covered hills
well, the landslide will bring you down;
The landslide will bring you down...
Well I've been afraid of changing
Because I've built my life around you
But time makes is bolder; children get older
I'm getting older too - Stevie Nicks

changing and changing and changing and not changing a bit. it all comes around to where it started, and it hurts and won't stop. time should make me bolder but it just makes me tired.
I had it all right here and now it's gone and it hurts.
wanted to see what is, not what isn't. now I don't know what's what and I'm afraid to find out.
no one could possibly be worth all this trouble.
why can't I believe anymore?

yawn

My favourite season is just around the corner and I really don't care.
I'm terrified to write that because I fear being taken seriously and having privileges revoked, as if God would throw off the seasons just for the sake of slapping me in the head to remind me Who's in charge.
I don't care anymore. I have no desire for anything. I will probably go down South to visit one family or the other, maybe both. I'm supposed to love road trips and Shoney's and weird little convenience stores off otherwise-deserted West Virginia exits at 3 a.m. and down-home drawls and reunion and firearms and four-wheeling and general depressurisation. Yawn.
I don't want to be reminded of how out of reach the life I wanted is. I never knew I wanted it until it was already too late. It's still my fault, because I was warned and I didn't listen. Every time I go there I can watch others reveling in it, bathed in possibilities and options and boundless optimism. Every year I see how far they've climbed and they know at a glance how far I've fallen. I am so insubstantial compared to them that I am surprised they can even see me or hear my voice when I speak.
I had dreams and desires and vision once. I had a heart once. Yawn.
I should be alive, reveling in possibility, exploring new corners of some huge good thing I was made to be and do. I don't. I ship denture adhesive to Kansas and collect old Romanian bayonets that attach to rifles I'm not allowed to own and pack gear for hikes I never take and my house gets messier every day and when I think about cleaning it's already nine-thirty on a Sunday night. I try to hold my own in a crowd of people I dearly love and get squeezed into the margins because I'm no good at interrupting or speaking with force and clarity. I hear or read others' words and pain and struggles and the things they describe are exactly what I know and feel, and the connection should be wonderful but it's hollow and empty and who cares? I share what little I know of life, as an act of faith that it matters and will be received, but in that act I am constantly exposed as weaker and more naive than anyone around. I don't think I am really in the room when I'm in the room. If this is all I bring to life, that's probably for the best.
It may be that no one intends stratification with me at the bottom, but that doesn't mean it doesn't happen. What else should I expect?
I don't want to not care. I want to once again desire to live and enjoy and affect for good. I don't want to waste a second of this summer, or any other second. But what if everything I bring, everything that's within my reach, everything that makes me come as nearly "alive" as I ever get, is itself a waste?
I wish I was them. Anyone or anything but this. I wish I could stand among them and know I mattered like they do. I need to be punished. I dread it, but know how to expect nothing else. I am a very bad thing. Yawn.

challenge coin

Last night I went for a stroll about the neighbourhood. I went with my usual intentions of connecting with God, and my usual expectations of being distracted into failing at it. I was pleasantly surprised.
For the first time in longer than I can remember, I knew He was there, walking with me, engaging me in real conversation, for His own inscrutable reasons taking an interest in my blather and gushing. I could actually hear Him answering me. We actually hung out and enjoyed each other.
It is strange to converse with the Creator of all that exists as if I were a vet bumping into the CO of his old unit in a bar. As a fat civilian, I have no such first-hand experience, but I imagine it would feel very much like last night. Whatever pathetic "battles" or struggles or trials can be called my own were undertaken at His behest. He was with me all the way. He has total authority to evaluate and judge the outcome of my conduct on those occasions. He was not "leading" from the safety of an office. He has known every step I've taken before they ever happened.
I reminisced with Him about my early years as a Christian, when I was much more easily impressed by anything that had His name on it. I was so glad to be alive and in Him that the cheesiest band or book or song or sermon could delight and inspire me, and I didn't much care who knew it. I went gleefully and implacably berserk over things that it actually hurts to remember. They were that bad.
What makes the memories so painful is less about artistic quality then about lost innocence. Even coming out of a lifetime of mockery and contempt and reasons aplenty to mistrust my own species, even after having my very faith hijacked and poisoned by legalism and bondage and spiritual abuse, I hadn't really learned how fucked up people are, myself included. I am afraid I still haven't.
I hadn't yet learned how much corruption lurks under so much of what is broadly accepted as Kingdom business. I hadn't discovered how hollow and world-weary and cynical so many of my favourite Christian musicians were when the shows were over. I hadn't yet learned the knack of reading and listening between the lines to spot the little twists of deceit and empire-building and doctrine-peddling that now seem to hit me almost everywhere, even, it sometimes feels, in the living rooms of those precious few souls whom I can still muster the moxie to trust with my very life. People call that discernment, and sometimes it's apparently a spiritual gift. I am assured it is necessary. So is a designated marksman in an infantry squad, the one who doesn't merely fire at muzzle flashes or rustling leaves but looks through an expensive scope at an enemy with a face and a certain eye colour and maybe a wedding ring two fingers down from the one on his trigger, and who is forced to learn all that in a very few seconds about a person he has already decided to kill.
I don't pretend to equate myself with a combat veteran of any stripe, but I know one or two, and I have tasted a very muted, minor shadow of a phenomenon they have described to me. The things they have had to learn and do and become to survive have changed them forever, and sometimes they don't like what those changes add up to in a mirror or a moment of introspection. I wanted to go on finding God around every corner and reveling in Him forever, but I had to learn a lot of harsh, bitter lessons about the gulf between His heart and so much of what is done in His name. I learned this not only to survive, but to help others do the same, though I hope that anyone I may have helped came through with a little less cynicism than I have. Okay, a lot less.
I used to be giddy and enthusiastic about Jesus. I saw Him through and beyond and in spite of all the junk and trash and hype and petty human antics. There isn't much I know, but I know that He was pleased with that. Oddly enough, that scares me on some level, because I fear He will ask me to do my thing again and it will no longer be real and spontaneous and heartfelt, but only embarrassing. Make no mistake, He's no less real, just a lot harder to see and hear for all the noise. And I still love Him, though I've become quite a bit harder to pin down because it doesn't pay to stay still for long. There are snipers everywhere. I hate this. I really do.
I don't know how many more episodes of "doing my thing" I have left in me, if any, between now and heaven, but there is one thing I would like very, very much to know. I would like to know that I lost my innocence from fighting an adversary worth standing against, not from letting it die by default or whoring it out for the approval of others. I would like most of all to know that He knows that I did. Whatever He knows about me is true. I hope that is better than I feel.